In public, seventeen-year-old Alike, or Lee (Adepero Oduye), dresses in boys’ jackets, baggy pants, and sports shoes. Her hair is short on its own, but she makes it even shorter by tying it back into a bun, and she hides it all under a baseball cap. She’s not trying to pass herself off as a boy – she’s just trying to wear what makes her most comfortable. But during bus rides home, she will take off the cap, let down her hair, remove the jacket, and reveal a form-fitting white shirt with a jeweled butterfly printed on it. She will even put earrings on. She will stop short, however, of putting on makeup. She makes herself look just feminine enough without becoming too girly. This is to sate her mother, Audrey (Kim Wayans), who doesn’t approve of her tomboy looks and always tries to buy her more overtly female clothing.
Lee is, of course, going through the process of accepting herself as a lesbian. She has yet to come out to her family. She has every reason to be hesitant, especially when it comes to her mother, who’s so determined to keep up appearances that she will try to make her daughter into something she’s not. She gets along better with her father, a cop named Arthur (Charles Parnell); at least they can play basketball together. But there’s still a great deal of tension between them. He wants a daddy’s girl, and he refuses to see his daughter’s tomboy lifestyle as anything other than a phase. It doesn’t help that he’s quietly menacing, emotionally walled off, and apparently not in love with his wife. How he got this chip on his shoulder, no one really knows. It’s strongly suggested, though, that he doesn’t appreciate having to work extra to accommodate Audrey’s excessive spending.
One of the greatest strengths of “Pariah,” director Dee Rees’ feature-length expansion of her own 2007 short film, is that its themes are universal. Despite what appearances suggest, it’s not about homosexuality; it’s about identity and the dangers of forbidden love. This can take on so many forms – cultural taboos, generation gaps, religious intolerance, personality quirks, physical deformity – and still amount to the same thing. Appreciating this movie does not require that you be gay or even tolerant of gay people. All that’s required of you is an understanding of how it feels to be different in some way. Have you ever been made fun of for a funny name, or an unusual hairstyle, or a unique style of dress? Has your family ever disapproved of your life decisions, like becoming an actor when they wanted you to become a doctor? Have you ever formed a friendship with someone disapproved of by others? If you can relate to any of this, or to any other circumstances I didn’t mention, this movie will speak to you. |